judgements

in real life, people juz love judging everyone without even seeing themselves first in front of the mirror...

i guess it's just the nature of life where people can be so judgemental...

well, i think everyone is like that including me...

u can keep on denying that u're not a judgemental person, but once u start to talk about a person, u tend to judge that person without u even noticing it...

u can call it as gossiping, or mengumpat or whatsoever...

but the same thing that connects to all this are judgements that are being made..

"eh, he's not good for her" "eh, look at her dress! how ugly it is!" "she's a fashion victim" "they're not meant for each other" "she's fat" "she's ugly" bla bla bla...

do u find these sentence familiar? i bet u must have said it even for once..coz i admit i do..

how sure r u that he's not good for her?

how do u know that dress is ugly? don't u think others can even say the same thing bout u?

how sure r u that u're not a fashion victim even if u follow the newest fashion trend?

how can u tell that the couple are not meant for each other?

so, what if she's fat? so, what if she's ugly?

who are u to say those things? have u been in their shoe for a day that u've given urself the right to judge? do u know the reason why they're like that?

yes! u only see what's going on on the outside but u don't have a single clue what's going on on the inside..

there are reasons behind everything that happens in life..

so, no matter who u are as long as u're a human u have no rights to judge others unless u were God..

this is just a simple reminder to myself and others..if u feel offended by what i wrote then i'm sorry..juz expressing my feelings here.. :)